How to say “I want to” in Japanese: the たい form

Want to eat ramen? Visit Kyoto? Learn Japanese? The たい form turns any verb into a wish, and it’s one of the easiest forms to make.

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The short answer
  • Take the ます form, replace ます with たい: → (want to eat).
  • Add です to be polite: .
  • たい conjugates like an い-adjective: (don’t want to), (wanted to).
  • For wanting a thing, use ほしい: (I want water).

How to make it

Dictionaryます formたい formMeaning
want to eat
want to go
want to drink
want to do
want to come
  • ラーメンがたべたいですrāmen ga tabetai desu
    I want to eat ramen.
  • にほんにいきたいですNihon ni ikitai desu
    I want to go to Japan.
  • にほんごがはなせるようになりたいですnihongo ga hanaseru yō ni naritai desu
    I want to become able to speak Japanese.

Negative and past

たい behaves like an い-adjective:

FormExampleMeaning
presentI want to go
negativeI don’t want to go
pastI wanted to go
past negativeI didn’t want to go

Wanting things: ほしい

  • あたらしいスマホがほしいですatarashii sumaho ga hoshii desu
    I want a new smartphone.
  • なにがほしいですかnani ga hoshii desu ka
    What do you want?
  • じかんがほしいjikan ga hoshii
    I want (more) time.

What other people want

Like feelings, wishes are personal in Japanese. For others, use 〜たがっている (shows signs of wanting) or ask directly:

  • なにがしたいですかnani ga shitai desu ka
    What do you want to do?Fine as a question to friends. With superiors, avoid asking about their wishes this directly.
  • おとうとはにほんにいきたがっていますotōto wa Nihon ni ikitagatte imasu
    My younger brother wants to go to Japan.

Polite invitations use 〜ませんか instead: , would you like to eat together?

Talking about dreams and plans

  • いつかにほんにすみたいですitsuka Nihon ni sumitai desu
    Someday I want to live in Japan.
  • ふじさんにのぼりたいですFujisan ni noboritai desu
    I want to climb Mount Fuji.
  • なにがしたい?nani ga shitai?
    What do you want to do? (casual)
  • どこにいきたいですかdoko ni ikitai desu ka
    Where do you want to go?
  • とくになにもしたくないですtoku ni nani mo shitakunai desu
    I don’t particularly want to do anything.

たい for soft requests

Adding to a たい sentence turns it into a polite, indirect request, very common in shops and offices:

  • これをかえしたいんですがkore o kaeshitai n desu ga
    I’d like to return this…
  • よやくしたいんですがyoyaku shitai n desu ga
    I’d like to make a reservation…
  • しつもんしたいんですがshitsumon shitai n desu ga
    I’d like to ask something…

A common mistake

Don’t use たい to invite someone or to ask a superior what they want: is fine among friends, but with a boss it can sound too direct. For invitations, use (won’t you come along?).

Make a wish0/3
  1. “I want to drink coffee.”

  2. “I don’t want to go.”

  3. “I want a cat.”

Frequently asked questions

How do you say I want to in Japanese?

Replace ます with たい: たべます (eat) → たべたい (want to eat). Add です to be polite: たべたいです.

What is the difference between tai and hoshii?

たい attaches to verbs (want to do something), ほしい is used with nouns (want something): みずがのみたい (want to drink water) vs. みずがほしい (want water).

How do you say I don't want to in Japanese?

Change たい to たくない: いきたくないです means 'I don't want to go'.

How do you politely say I would like to in Japanese?

Use the tai form + んですが: 予約したいんですが, 'I'd like to make a reservation…'. Trailing off is polite and natural.