- こ = near me. そ = near you. あ = far from both of us. ど = which?
- Things: これ, それ, あれ, どれ.
- Before a noun: この, その, あの, どの + noun.
- Places: ここ, そこ, あそこ, どこ.
The ko-so-a-do chart
| こ (near me) | そ (near you) | あ (over there) | ど (which?) | |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| thing | これ this | それ that | あれ that over there | どれ which |
| + noun | この〜 | その〜 | あの〜 | どの〜 |
| place | ここ here | そこ there | あそこ over there | どこ where |
| direction (polite) | こちら | そちら | あちら | どちら |
| way | こう like this | そう like that | ああ like that | どう how |
これ・それ・あれ・どれ
- これはなんですかkore wa nan desu kaWhat is this?
- それはわたしのですsore wa watashi no desuThat (near you) is mine.
- あれはふじさんですかare wa Fujisan desu kaIs that (over there) Mount Fuji?
- どれがいいですかdore ga ii desu kaWhich one is good?
この・その・あの・どの + noun
これ stands alone; この needs a noun after it. Don’t say これほん; say このほん.
- このほんはおもしろいですkono hon wa omoshiroi desuThis book is interesting.
- そのかばん、かわいいですねsono kaban, kawaii desu neThat bag (of yours) is cute.
- あのひとはだれですかano hito wa dare desu kaWho is that person over there?
- どのバスにのりますかdono basu ni norimasu kaWhich bus do I take?
ここ・そこ・あそこ・どこ
- ここはどこですかkoko wa doko desu kaWhere am I? (Where is here?)
- トイレはあそこですtoire wa asoko desuThe toilet is over there.
- そこでまっていてくださいsoko de matte ite kudasaiPlease wait there.
こちら, そちら, あちら, どちら are polite versions you’ll hear from staff: こちらへどうぞ, this way, please.
Bonus: そう in conversation
そうですね (that’s right / let me think) and そうですか (is that so?) come from the same system and are two of the most-used phrases in Japanese conversation.
Ko-so-a-do in real life
This system is everywhere in shops and restaurants. Pointing plus a ko-so-a-do word gets you a long way, even with few other words:
- これをくださいkore o kudasaiThis one, please.
- それはいくらですかsore wa ikura desu kaHow much is that one (near you)?
- あのケーキはなんですかano kēki wa nan desu kaWhat’s that cake over there?
- どれがおすすめですかdore ga osusume desu kaWhich one do you recommend?
- こちらへどうぞkochira e dōzoThis way, please.
あの… for hesitation
あの and あのう are also used as fillers, like um or excuse me, to get attention softly: あのう、すみません. ええと (let me see) does a similar job while you think.
あれ and それ in conversation
In conversation, あれ can refer to something both speakers know from the past: あれ、おいしかったね (that was delicious, wasn’t it, about a meal you shared). それ refers to something the other person just mentioned: それ、いいですね (that sounds good). It’s the same near-me / near-you logic, applied to topics instead of objects.
A pen in your hand: “This is a pen.”
“This book”:
“Where is the station?”
A building far from both of you:
Frequently asked questions
What is the difference between kore, sore and are?
これ (kore) is near the speaker, それ (sore) near the listener, and あれ (are) far from both. どれ (dore) asks 'which one?'.
What is the difference between kore and kono?
これ stands alone as a pronoun (これはなんですか), while この must be followed by a noun (このほん, this book).
What is ko-so-a-do?
Ko-so-a-do is the Japanese system of demonstratives: words starting with こ (near me), そ (near you), あ (far from both) and ど (question).
What does ano mean in Japanese?
あの means 'that (over there)' before a noun, but あの / あのう is also used as a hesitation filler like 'um' or a soft 'excuse me'.